Yesterday we talked about how it feels when you make a friend feel good by giving them a compliment, helping them with a problem, or including them in a game. We all agreed that our buckets overflow when we are kind to others! We also talked about how it feels to dip from other people's buckets by saying hurtful things, excluding them from games, or tattling on them. We talked about how (myself included) the "easiest" people to dip from are our siblings or our family members because we spend the most time with them. We also decided that dipping might feel like a good response to a problem at first, but in the end we feel really crummy.
To really make it tangible, we have a new Bucket Filling system! Each child has a bucket (or a pocket on a jewelry holder - thank goodness for TJ Maxx!). When we wish to fill someone's bucket with a kind thought or helpful words, we fill out a slip and put it in their bucket. We also fill both their bucket and ours with a colorful bead to signify our buckets being filled.
Finally, we all took the Bucket Filler Pledge!
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